Devin and Owen

Devin and Owen

Thursday, November 1, 2018

So Much News

So when I last left you guys, I had just gotten the injections in my head/neck, was being treated for an infection, and we were full steam ahead towards wedding weekend!

So much has happened in life since then and I just need to start off with the largest thank you I am capable of. Owen and I are beyond blessed to have so many wonderful people surrounding us that care so unbelievably much about our happiness. We have felt embraced by all of you with your prayers, well wishes, gifts and love and the word grateful can’t begin to cover it. The wedding was everything we could have hoped for, a beautiful day with a little misty rain and lots of love. All of the planning and images in my head came together just as we had hoped and it became a day that we will never forget! Our relationship has been through more hardship than many see in a lifetime, and thankfully we have come through it more in love and thankful for each other than we ever knew was possible. More photos to follow :) I promise!
After our whirlwind weekend we left for a fantastic honeymoon in Hawaii full of road trips, waterfalls, snorkeling, zip lining, amazing food and so much more! Well worth the wait and so needed for us to just leave reality behind for a little while. Although we missed the pups tremendously, we didn’t want to come back!
Now that we are settled back home and back to real life, here is the news on the medical front...
The infection in my tooth extraction site was drained before the wedding and after two rounds of antibiotics it finally began to heal appropriately. So far so good, I go back to the periodontist in January unless there are any new issues that arise. Who would have believed that one pesky tooth could take more than six months to deal with.
I am still in physical therapy to work on my neck and jaw needs as well as headache management. We are hoping for some more improvement to lessen my headaches and pain overall so that will continue for a bit longer. I saw my physical medicine doctor this week to resume the med adjustment process and continue to investigate new ways to manage my pain long term. We trialed a new Injection in my upper back and neck with a steroid component to break up some of the inflammation and scar tissue. I’m pretty sore today but hopefully it will help more than the last round. I am also waiting for insurance approval to begin Botox injections in my jaw. I’m very nervous about this step, but the only way to know if it will settle the spasms and give me relief is to try. So we will see.
I also followed up with my primary care last week to discuss my ongoing thyroid issues. Because my numbers are all good aside from my hormone level which continues to be elevated from radiation damage, he doesn’t feel getting it controlled should be too difficult. I started a new medicine, very low dose, and will be rechecked in a few months to adjust it as needed. The only new development is that I need to have a carotid dopplar test done. As we know, because of radiation my muscles are are stiff and fibrotic. The arteries in my neck are also at high risk of hardening which can lead to plaque build up and blockages, which ultimately can lead to terrible side effects such as heart attack and stroke. So they will do a study to see if I have any build up at this point that needs to be handled and I will have a follow up screening every two to three years for life to make sure I stay clear in that area. It’s good we are being safe, but the possibilities are frightening. Especially since I see the life after strokes everyday at my job. Better safe now than sorry down the line.
Aside from all of that life is happy :). Owen and I are settling back into life with Max and Ellie and it’s been nice to get a routine back again. Maybe now that the wedding is passed I’ll get started on that book all of you keep pushing me to write. We will see :). I have a CT scan in December to make sure that my lung nodule and possible infection cleared, then nothing significant til March for my next round of oncology visits. Fingers crossed it stays that way and nothing new reveals itself until then!
Thank you all again so much for all of your kind words and well wishes the past few weeks! It means so much to us that so many people are as invested in our life together as we are!